Nature teaches us that
we can rise back from hardships.
On the first Saturday of September, two hiker sisters and I
visited one of the trails I count among the toughies in the Gauteng Province - I
almost always feel like I’ve been hit by a loaded truck after hiking this trail.
This being the spring season this side of the hemisphere, I was reminded of the
many lessons we can get from nature. And I know I have shared what I learnt from hiking, but this time I am writing about what I observed regarding
how nature works, something that many of us see but maybe do not learn from.
Circle of life
I once had a conversation with a friend about how human
beings must learn to accept death as part of being alive. Whether we are going
to die young or old is something that is beyond us. And yet we like trying to
be in control of that. We see death as an end and not part of the circle of
life. And I must say, I have experienced deaths of people close to me and yes,
none of them was easy on me. I have learnt that every new beginning is preceded
by death. When someone gets married, their single life dies as they begin life
as a married person. When a woman gives birth to a baby, her life as she knew
it dies, and she begins a new life as a mother. You can think of many other
examples, including how your life as a non-hiker died as you birthed your new
life as a hiker.
And after losing
leaves and standing bare for a few months, the new season has brought back the
beauty, which will last for a while only.
As human beings, we spend fortunes trying to preserve our
youthful looks and even to prolong our lives, all the while, not living fully
as our focus is on the future. When it’s time for leaves to die, they gracefully
fall on their own, or as the wind blows and release them from the branches,
without resistance. And there on the ground, they make a beautiful carpet of
different colours, and they are available to be used by some animals to build
their shelters while they also enrich the soil.
Change
Change is an inevitable part of our existence and yet we
tend to resist it with all we have. And yet each year we see seasons changing,
which confirms that nothing stays forever. And as seasons change, we see nature
going through changes too. With the falling leaves mentioned above, trees stand
naked while the grass go dry. And all
these plants go through this, only for a new season to come, bringing with it new
leaves and flowers or even fruits. And yet as human beings, we are comfortable
to have things staying the same or doing something the only way we are used to,
thereby not allowing ourselves to grow new leaves and flowers.
While change can happen over time, sometimes it may be instant - the same way that we can wake up to a sunny day only for clouds to form and cause a storm. And when that happens, we need to adapt.
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And change may take a form of no longer enjoying hiking with
big groups, not because you’ve lost your love for a particular hiking
community, but because you have found what speaks better to your soul. Or like
myself, deciding that sleeping in a tent no longer works, either because of another
change that makes crawling into a tent difficult, or because of a simple change
in preference.
Renewal and new
beginnings
People often ask about coming across snakes during hikes.
While you may come across a snake, sometimes instead of seeing a snake, you may
see the skin it has shed. And that is a beautiful lesson in nature about
renewal. I grew up in a village where you’d be greeted by a snake at the door
in the morning, or at the outside toilet. They were everywhere, and I feared
them. I still have issues with snakes, but I came to embrace what they
represent and what they teach us. When it no longer serves you, you can shed it
and come out renewed. And if it means taking time off to hibernate for a while
as you prepare for your renewal, why not? There are animals that disappear in
winter (apparently they sleep throughout the winter season) only to come out in
Spring, renewed.
Sometimes for renewal to happen, you may have to go through rough.
I couldn’t help but notice the beautiful plants showing their presence as they rise from the burnt ground - renewed - and each showing off their unique colour and being ready to flourish. I know you’ve already been told that your hardships or what may seem like a raging fire in your life, may be preparing you for something better. I invite you, as you walk through the trails, to observe and listen to nature as she advises you. And each time a beautiful butterfly flutters by, remember the transformation it went through to be that beautiful
Adaptability
During this hike, I couldn’t help but notice the trees at
various stages of their lives. Some were bare while others had green shoots or
complete leaves; others had beautiful flowers which they showed off. And
each of the plants was allowed to be. Do we as humans allow others to just be?
Or do we start wondering why she has leaves and I don’t? Why is she having
flowers while I don’t? And when circumstances stop the plant from growing
taller like others of its species, that doesn't stop it from blooming. You may
not achieve what your peers have achieved, but that should not stop you from
being who you are, and blossoming where you are just as you are.
No matter where you find yourself, you can still bloom.
Collaboration
I think the biggest collaborators we know are ants and bees.
While they work with their own most of the time, bees also collaborate with
flowers as they use pollen for their own nutrition while transferring it from
one flower to another, assisting with pollination. Plants not only provide us
with food, but they also provide same to animals. In the process animals help
spread the seeds, thereby leading to reproduction. Trees provide shade for us
and provide shade and shelter for animals too. And we know of birds who eat ticks from some mammals. As human beings we can fly
further if, like birds, we fly in a group, harnessing the strength we each
have. Stronger hikers also support and motivate beginner hikers and those
struggling due to one thing or another. Some collaborations in hiking means
planning on how to share supplies and other hiking essentials on a hiking trip.
Finally
This was not meant to be a motivational piece. Just me sharing what my weekend hiking brought to the surface. I guess another lesson from the weekend was remembering when to slow down and when to rely on each other. My hiker sister slipped on a slippery descent and injured her ankle. We had to sit with her until she felt ready to try walking. We were less than a kilometre to the end of the trail when that happened. It took us an hour, if not more, to complete that distance because we had to slow down and support one of our own - she is now wearing a moonboot. I wish her a speedy recovery and I know that, having witnessed what nature does, she will nurse herself back to health so we can go back to exploring nature and getting more lessons together. Not all lessons have to involve pain but yes, even in pain, we get taught something. I hope your lessons won’t involve pain, and where they do, that you will be gentle with yourself as you deal with that. And remember to prepare for your hike.
Keep doing!
Td
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